Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Apology etal

Hey all. Happy nu year. Sorry about my long sabatical. Sadly I cant promise that it wont happen again. A lot has happened but I have decided to share the saddest thing that happened to me. I got dumped. As simple as that. Long story there but let me keep it as short as possible. I was datin a serious guy who had proposed and was planning a december wedding. My friend of eight years said he had feelings for me. I decided to go with my hat afterall the devil u know is beta thatn the angel u don’t know right? WRONG. I left the certainty of mariage to the uncertainty of dating. And for a 28 year old woman that’s not an easy sacrifice. We dated for about four months. Then we had our FIRST argument and I walked out of his house. I sent messages for about a week tried calling, then finally went to his house. He said I was childishly immature and a time comes when people should not deal with such. So he is out and we can still remain friends. I begged nada. I was torn and cried evri nite for 2 weeks. Not exaggerating but food tasted like sawdust for a week. And the remainin friends part, yeah rite he does not pick my calls-atleast the last time I tried calling about 4 weeks ago.Worst of all im now mega pertrified of getting into an argument with any one. All this happened in Jan, the hurt has gone to be replaced by an Ungodly anger . i really need a restraining order so as not to break all his wordly possesions
PS, whoever said that being self employed is the best because you have your own hours lied. PSS. Don’t try working for/with your mother .

24 comments:

LG said...

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iHeart! said...

oh wow. that SUX! jeez babe... so so so sorry.

do you wish you'd stayed with the first guy?

you poor thing!

LG said...

awww pele dearie' but i dont like dis kind post after manyyyyyyy months of going AWOL *sigh*
no worries' things can only get better (amen)

SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

I was so excited to see you had updated, but I am so sorry to read this.

Take it easy.

anonymous gal said...

@Lg congrats
@ihat. no i hv no regrets. the 1st guy and moi wr not really compatible
@ Lg AGAIN THABKS DEA
@ solo yeah shite happens. im dealin wit it

QMoney said...

I was jus goin to suggest mr S.R oh.wen did u become incompatible again Nne?
tot he was all nice and u liked him and stuff??
praaaaaaaaaaay,it works.glad to have u back,happy new year and try to make it more often,u hear?

AlooFar said...

Sorry about the event.

why u scare me from starting my business? ;)

anonymous gal said...

@ q my brain was/is way way sharper and smarter than his.u hv noidea how fustratin it is picking the easiest english words and explaininn ur evri actions
@ aloofar the hours are crazy my broda

bumight said...

SHE'S ALIVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!

i'm so sowee, but im still happy you're alive!

NoLimit said...

Wow! sorry about that...but I'm glad to see you back though...I pray you get a better man...(amen).

Kitten said...

If he dumped you because you had a fight and walked out, he wasn't serious. You were emotional, you reacted so what?

Don't be afraid to fight--it's going to happen. You're human.

I don't know you and this is my first time here, but I feel you. Hugs.

anonymous gal said...

@bumight. yes im aliveeeeeeeee
@ no limit AMEN O
@ kitten i hv been tellin myself that fights happen-but 4 now its not helpin

rayo said...

sorry dear, must rili suck goin thru that...

Rita said...

Welcome back dear. Sorry about what happened. I remember one of my heartbreaks. I did not eat for 3 months. But it did not bring the guy back and now I am happy about it!

I really wish there was something I could say to make you feel better becos being dumped is not something that heals easily (unless you dont like the person).

One thing I can assure you is if you leave your mind open and let go, someone much better will come.

Pls this is no time for regrets...take it easy...

fantasy queen said...

awww, so sorry about that.

maybe all this happened for good? maybe they were both wrong for you?
all will be well....and dont let the age factor bother u.

uhhh, and to think i though working with/for mama was the best

Afrobabe said...

wow...babes cant u go back to the ex??? tell him you really miss him and have come to ur senses....

OluwaDee said...

Welcome back love.

sorry about getting dumped; his loss I say.

Wont work for my mama, if it was the last job on earth.
Can work WITH her occassionally tho.

Favoured Girl said...

Awww sorry to hear about this dear. It's his loss and he probably wasn't serious from the start. I hope you start to heal and move past him.

rethots said...

Hmmm, but, no relationship becomes 'solid' without them arguments.

Time....

THIRTY + said...

Kpele dear but things will get better..though it may take time.

Welcome back

Cidersweet said...

It's painful sha... but THIS TOO SHALL PASS. Your Man is on his way, amin! Talking about it helps, and I hope you feel better today. All the best.
Cheers.

doll said...

if you could leave the SR it means love was mising...so at least you saved yourself from a loveless marriage

sorry this dint work out...d right person will come

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